本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛the most loyal employees are the ones who have no other option except their current employer -- simply because their risk tolerance level is so low that once they lose what they have there is nothing left.
the world we live in now is still, in essence, the same jungle world from 3000 years ago. if the Wall Street scumbags can rob and steel your money from your bank account what makes you think anyone else will stop short stealing your spouse? in this sense it is wiser to make yourself a stronger competitor than to rely on the protection of fictitious moral principle.
on the other hand, we promote individulality and we believe the degree of our uniqueness is, to a large extent, the determining factor whether we are living our life meaningfully or not. if this is true then what is wrong if someone has more than one lovers/mistresses when there is nothing wrong if the same person owns more than one houses or cars?
marital fidelity is a matter of choice, not something that is given. if you are happily faithful to your spouse then good for you and enjoy. for those who want more and demand more there is no written law to stop it -- as long as they have a high risk tolerance level and can afford the consequence.
it is quite ironical to stick to the ideal of marital fidelity at a time Warren Buffett is profiting from the financial downfall of millions.
there are poeple who are content with a job that pays 30K a yr. yet there are people who feel they are poor even if being paid 10 times or 20 tims more? why should we expect them to have the same desire/demand for their relationship(s)?更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net