本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛My daughter is now almost 12 , very active at school, almost joined all the school social activities ( volleyball, cross country, folk dance, French speach etc.), you name it, she has it. Our method is - don't push the child, but take her/him out of your house to anywhere, library, playground, science center etc. Anywhere that she or he will learn something exciting & new and also has chances to meet people. Don't push him to say hello if he is shy. Don't tell other people that your kid is shy , especially in front of him.
I think it is showing that the kid is nervous and lack of self-confidence. the only thing you can build up his confidence is to be patient and praise him every time he does something good, encourges him to try new things and make sure you provide him chances to learn new/exciting thing and meet more people.
this is what our family has done since she was about 4 years old, i still say that she is not 100% there yet, but I believe that we have achieved a lot over the year. She is happy, healthy and famous in her school as well.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
I think it is showing that the kid is nervous and lack of self-confidence. the only thing you can build up his confidence is to be patient and praise him every time he does something good, encourges him to try new things and make sure you provide him chances to learn new/exciting thing and meet more people.
this is what our family has done since she was about 4 years old, i still say that she is not 100% there yet, but I believe that we have achieved a lot over the year. She is happy, healthy and famous in her school as well.更多精彩文章及讨论,请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net